I almost died (The 90/10 Reality)


Dear Asset,

I’ve been gone for almost two years. I couldn't come back without telling you why.

The truth is, I was drowning in negativity. I was so overwhelmed by trying to manage "everything"—my business, my work, and my relationships—that my body literally started fighting against itself. I ended up in a hospital bed with meningitis.

The doctors were surprised I survived. Most people don't. But in that hospital bed, listening to the pain of the person in the room next to me, I had to ask: Is this it? Is life just a cycle of working until we break?

The Lesson: Your body is only 10% of who you are. It’s the "Front-End." Your spirit is the 90%. it’s the "Back-End."

Most of us are "bipolar" on a daily basis—happy one minute, miserable the next—because we let the 10% (the material world) dictate our 90% (the spirit). I learned that when you miss the mark on your purpose, you invite sickness and negativity into your system.

The Assignment:

  1. Watch the Return: If you haven't heard the full story of how I navigated that hospital room and reclaimed my power, watch Episode 1 now.
  2. Audit Your Beliefs: Analyze your life today. Is your current reality a manifestation of your own beliefs, or are you living out someone else's script?
  3. Friday Catch-Up: I’m going live this Friday to answer your questions and hear your thoughts on the 90/10 split. Go to my post now and vote on the time that works for you.

I’m not here to sugarcoat things anymore. Season 4 is about the truth.


Self-First isn’t selfish. It's a standard.

EMMERANCE | EMMERANCE COACHING INC.

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Emmerance Victoria Odia Ndala

Emmerance Victoria Odia Ndala is a self-empowerment coach, personal development podcaster and transformational speaker. One of the many ways she helps people is through her podcast, The Emmerance Podcast, which focuses on Self-Love. Subscribe now to get new podcast episodes notifications.

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